Excuses aren’t welcome when it comes to quitting smoking!

by Darren Warmuth

All too often I hear statements like, “Once I have gotten rid of my stress, I am going to quit smoking” or “It’s going to be my New Year’s resolution” or “I could quit right away, if it weren’t for (fill in the blank)”. You know what I’m getting at.

First things first. Get out a notepad and spend some time writing down the exact reasons that are driving you to rid yourself of this habit. Then once you are done with that, turn the page over and jot down all the reasons (excuses) you might make to justify why you haven’t.

Just putting excuses down on paper so that they are something solid you can see is enough to make some people look at how silly they really are. For others, they may have to analyze their list of excuses and figure out why they believe these reasons to be true. Usually it is due to repetition. You’ve been telling yourselves for years that these are the reasons why you smoke, and if you tell yourself something enough times, eventually it will become an ingrained belief, whether it is the truth or not.

I’ve listed some of the more common excuses here, but ultimately it is your responsiblity to list EVERY reason you think keeps you smoking.

“I’m afraid that I’ll gain weight if I quit smoking.”

Really? Would you believe that it has been shown that we are better off healthwise to be 70+ pounds overweight than to continue smoking. Of course that doesn’t give us the excuse to binge. Yes it is true that some people do put on a few pounds when giving up smoking, however there is healthy alternatives to your diet which will help alleviate this. Just keep in mind to snack on healthy foods like fruits and vegetables, not chocolate bars and pretzels.

“Smoking makes me happy.”

If that were truly so, then chances are you wouldn’t be sitting there now gathering information on quitting, would you? Don’t worry. I’m not picking on you. I used to say the very same thing. Making statements such as this creates one major issue. And that is the fact that the more times you say it, the more you become to believe it. I’ve said it before. So time to come clean and be honest with yourself, is smoking really that enjoyable or is it just a fallacy you’ve convinced yourself to be true? What is it that you think smoking gives you? More money, better health and cleaner, fresher breath? Looking at it from that angle and writing down the answers will show you that you really don’t enjoy smoking that much at all.

Now don’t take those statements as viscious or cruel. In no way are they meant to be that way. What they are meant to be is a wake up call - and one that I needed as well. If, as smokers, we keep making excuses as to why we continue the habit, the outcome is that we will remain addicted to the nicotine. And the sooner we realize this reality, the easier quitting will be.

Trust in yourself and you’ll find that you already have what it takes to beat these lies.

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Smoking is Like A Smoking Gun For Heart Disease

by Zak Hart

Ignorance is no excuse to suffer from heart disease associated with smoking. For years doctors have tried to preach the dangers of smoking to the public, making the dangers widely known. Some people still choose to not take these warnings seriously. You may think it will never happen to you but is it really worth the risk?

At least 60 of the thousands of chemicals in a cigarette are toxic. These toxins invade your blood stream accelerating the speed in which your arteries can harden, leaving you susceptible to coronary heart disease, severely increasing your chances of suffering from a heart attack, heart failure, and even sudden death.

There are people that still ask the question if they only smoke one to two cigarettes a day are they still a candidate for heart disease. Your body isn’t counting how many cigarettes you put in it, which would be like asking if I only stood on the train tracks one time today would I still get hit by a train. No one knows for sure, but it’s always a possibility.

Each person’s body is different this is why a doctor can’t tell you yes you can smoke a pack a day for a year and not have this affect you, because only your body can decide when it has had all it can take. Your family history can’t be avoided, especially when adding smoking as another factor you are at higher risk of heart disease than the average person.

Each time you light a cigarette because you just have to have one you are affecting everyone around you. Second hand smoke affects the risk of heart disease for those around you too. Is it really worth lighting that cigarette to harm those people you care about? It’s like you are throwing them in front of the speeding train just as it goes by, they didn’t make the choice to smoke.

If the cigarette company listed the thousands of chemicals that were in their cigarettes on each pack the risk of heart disease would surely drop, because people would be repulsed at what they were putting in their mouths. These toxins are what contribute to fatty deposits building up in our arteries. For women who smoke and take certain birth control they have even higher chances of suffering from heart disease than the average person.

You may choose to put yourself at risk of heart disease due to your smoking, but you should also consider those closest to you when you next consider when and where you are going to light that next cigarette. Quitting smoking is the only way to free you from the potential health risks associated with the habit.

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To Successfully Quit Smoking, You Need a Multi-legged Stool

by Darren Warmuth

Tried to think of a stranger title, but I just couldn’t come up with one. The important thing is that it got your attention.

Support is the one tool that you want to be multi-legged as it is one of your strongest allies in the battle to quit smoking. Think about it. What if your kitchen stools only had one leg on them for support. Do you think it would make sitting down for dinner that much more difficult? Sure it would. You wouldn’t be able to eat in comfort because all your time would be spent concentrating on not falling over.

Would adding a second leg help? Of course. By concentrating on a stool that only moves side to side or back and forth, our attentions can be more focused on the goal we are seeking to accomplish.

How about a third leg? Is that any better? You bet - perfect stability. With this surefootedness we can focus all our attention on our task as we no longer have to worry about ending up on the floor if our concentration slips.

So what’s the point I am trying to make? A very simple one actually. By enlisting the help of support friends (legs) the efforts of quitting smoking won’t fall solely on you. There will be a couple of other friends there to assist you. Even four or five buddies to call on would not be excessive.

The important think to ask of the people whom you confide in for support is to ask that they remain at your disposal and not badger you with questions like ‘How is it going?’ everyday. You don’t want your support team to be a hindrance in trying to reach your goals, but a help. And one other thing. If you the courage to do it, make a deal with them and yourself in that if you ever decide you may want to have ‘just one’ cigarette that you MUST call each and every one of them and tell them you’ve decided to continue smoking. Make it through all your support ‘legs’ without being talked out of doing something silly like that and I would be quite surprised.

FREEDOM from the cigarette will come once you’ve made up your mind and enlisted all the tools you can find, including the multi-legged support system.

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NLP Hypnosis: Clinical Hypnosis

by Joel Chue

The process of interaction between a hypnotist and the sub conscious mind of a patient is defined as clinical hypnosis. This process actually plays a crucial role in the treatment of a patient. The majority of clinical hypnosis are conducted only qualified physicians as only they have the requisite knowledge about the mental health of a patient.

Of late, clinical hypnosis has assumed tremendous importance in view of the fact that people visit trained hypnotists to tackle their problems like smoking, drinking and various others. This method of hypnosis at a clinic is proved to be successful to control obesity as well.

The majority of us have the mistaken idea that, during hypnosis, a hypnotist just whitewashes the mind of the patient and reprogram it with a new beginning. However, the truth could not be further away; Hypnosis in fact requires a lot of work before we can even begin to see any results. The patient has to fully coordinate and cooperate with the hypnotist to achieve the desired results. Because of these factors, a lot of time is spent by the hypnotist is preparing the setting to develop the right attitude of the patient, which is conducive for treatment. If the recommendations and suggestions by the hypnotist are fully implemented by the patient, then the patient will be able to achieve his or her goal sooner. For example, those who wish to quit drinking and smoking will need to be patient before the treatment gain a foothold.

Therapeutic hypnosis is the name given to such a treatment involving a hypnotist for the purpose. In comparison, self hypnosis involves the hypnosis of the subject on his own, by reading materials provided on a CD or on the internet. In case of clinical hypnosis, on the other hand, the hypnotist completely understands the patients mental status and works on it. Remember to select an expert hypnotist for the purpose of treatment, as because the involvement of an inexperienced hypnotist may lead to extreme kind of reactions. So an expert in the field is always beneficial for the patient.

Most people who wish to quit their habits of drinking and smoking opt for this kind of treatment. It is believed that a chunk of the income that hypnotists get is from patients who wish to get rid of their smoking and drinking habits. Presently, there is not enough material to support the treatment of serious diseases like diabetes, cancer, etc., by hypnosis, but hypnosis can surely be used by cancer patients to lessen the pain that they experience.

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Tips for Quitting Smoking

by Darren Warmuth

If you want to quit smoking - and truly quit, not just have it as some passing fancy - you must hold yourself accountable not only to yourself but others as well. The nicotine beast, other smokers and your subconscious can all be very persuasive threats on the road to quitting so this is why I so firmly advocate a solid support group of at least two or three other people. Five is even better.

Here the numbers are important because it is that much more difficult to get past five persons to succumb to an overwhelming urge strikes than it is to convince just one person ” yourself.

Being accountable to others in the group

Actually, its all about holding yourself accountable to others. If you have been off cigarettes for one week and then your mind comes up with some silly reason that you need a smoke. It will very cleverly convince all the dissenting voices trying to remind you of your resolve so that you become weak and break down before the urge and take a smoke.

However, if you had five loyal soldiers standing between the nicotine demon and you, it will be entirely different story.

The process

Set up a small support group for yourself whether it be via email, telephone, or a support forum. Tell these people your goal to quit smoking but also ask them not to pester you about it - just to be there when you need help and positive support. Use them for encouragement.

Now, with a support group in place, when you again encounter an overwhelming urge to smoke, you will have to get past not just your own guilty conscience, but you have to call these five people and tell them that you have decided to start smoking again.

If you can do this much, you need not do anything else. They will do the talking and you just have to sit back and listen without getting angry or upset. Chances are that they will talk you out of your momentary weakness and encourage you to stick to your resolve. And it may not even take all five voices to convince you. However, if you can make it through all five members of your support team and you still think that you can do with just ‘one’ cigarette, then you must know that it is not just one ” it is always the first one that will get you.

The support system works because you have to fight six sane voices against the ‘one’.

As I say, the more you know about quitting, the more successful you will be. So get all the information you need BEFORE you try to quit. It’s much easier, believe me.

To your success,

Darren Warmuth

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Quitting smoking doesn’t have to be a lonely task

by Darren Warmuth

Finding a support system that works for you is crucial in becoming a non-smoker. It needn’t be a lonely, isolated journey which you take by yourself. Whether it be via an online forum, local church group, or through family and friends (excercise caution here), the key is to find people to help you in times of strife.

One of the most available tools is an online support group for those who do not have time to locate ‘real’ people. Through the online groups, you can reach out and connect with others who are striving to quit or those who have already quit. Nothing helps you get through cravings and challenges like seeing that other people have or are experiencing the exact same things you are.

Once you have found a message board you like, dig down and you will probably find that it is broken down into differing areas that correspond to the stage of quitting that you are currently in. And as I’ve said before, even though you think your particular situation is unique, you will most likely find that others before have encountered the exact same situation.

Enlisting the support of family and friends, in most cases can be very helpful. One of the only drawbacks to this would be, that sometimes family and friends think that they are being supportive when in actuality by them reminding you over and over not to smoke they can actually be pushing you towards a relapse.

So to deal with the excess inquiries of your family and friends, it is wise to inform them with withdrawal symptoms, naturally you may become more easily agitated and that their constant questioning could be a detriment to your success. It’s best to have this conversation with them before you quit to help ease matters later on.

Another option that a lot of people have found very helpful, is finding a local smoking cessation group. Often these group meetings may be held in a local hospital, at a library, or sometimes they meet at a church. Often you can find these meetings offered for free, or at the very least low cost in most cases.

Community support group meetings generally only last for an hour or so, but they are great place to make personal contact with others striving to become non-smokers. And it is this personal contact with a support buddy that could be just the help you need in staying smoke-free forever.

Whichever method you choose the chances for your success are greatly improved, by having a strong support system set in place, before your quit day. Making sure that you have utilized every tool that is available to you is only going to increase your chances of starting a new life as a nonsmoker.

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NLP Hypnosis: The Darker Aspect of Hypnosis

by Joel Chue

Hypnosis is a natural and common occurrence and it happens one faces it almost regularly. All of us go in and out of hypnotic trances throughout our day. These trances are generally well intend and are pretty harmless, but there are some people who drive others in to a hypnotic state just so that they can forcibly convince others to buy something that they would not buy under normal circumstances.

By now, you would be wondering who these people could be. Well, the groups which uses hypnotic trances the most to deliver their messages are the Media, the Advertising agencies, the Governments and those strongly opinioned individuals. The advertising agencies are the most aggressive of the lot who uses this method to push their messages across to the public to persuade them to buy their clients’ products. This is also the main reason why this group spends the most on advertising. There are certainly not there to be social welfare agencies, but rather to fill up their pockets when sales go up. The second group which uses hypnotic trances frequently are the political groups. A perfect example is the current Presidential election campaign going on in the US. Have you noticed and wondered why, how highly charged the advertisement s aired by the candidates?

All these campaigns are planned and crafted with details to achieve the maximum impact within the shortest possible time. Their aim is to get you to buy or at least influence you to buy their products in the end. Do you ever stop to think if you really needed that second car in the garage when the first one is working fine? Now you are beginning to see the darker side of hypnosis.

With respect to News, in fact, they are meant to inform us about the latest events that are happening around us. However, today, this is no longer the case. No longer are news related to the daily affairs which affects the nation, or us they are now more infotainment. These are designed to inform and entertain as the same time making us wanting to watch the news for the entertainment sake.

The truth is that good news is boring. You cannot hear to a happy story through out the day. It is more interesting to hear a story that goes like a happy man leaving for his job and then getting abducted by terrorists and it would make it all the more interesting and hypnotic if we add that meantime his wife lost her sanity and committed infanticide.

This is the flip side of hypnosis.

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NLP Hypnosis: How to Self Hypnosis

by Joel Chue

Self hypnosis, exactly what the term suggests? It is actually the process in which you practice hypnosis upon your own self for the achievement of goals that will lead you to the betterment of yourself. It is a very controversial topic since opinion about it varies from man to man. As an art rapidly changing into science, it has opened up huge possibilities of self betterment of individuals. You only require patience and practice on a regular basis to put it to your use. Even though responses to the therapy vary it is emerging as a fast developing science that will and has helped many to overcome various shortcomings in their personality, living habits and various other such fields.

Losing of bad habits, improving one’s memory, gluttony etc are only a few that can be overcome by this therapy. It is essentially a self-empowerment policy which is not some instant fix theory. It is the user’s motivation which will help him overcome the various obstacles in the path of his achieving what he wants to. It helps infuse positive energy in one’s life and bringing of happiness as a result.

The process and effectiveness of self-hypnotism should not be understated. This form of therapy works directly on a person subconscious mind, totally by passing the conscious level of an individual’s mind. When a person is going through a state of self-hypnotism, what they are doing is that, they substitute their negative emotions for more positive ones. This is the main reason why a person can be self-empowered. Thus, being driven by self-empowerment, an individual can be extremely successful in what they set out to do in the first place.

Learning hypnotherapy is easy. You can get professional help as well as you can learn it up yourself. The easiest way is to get a hypnotherapist, someone who will teach you how to make the therapy effective. But if you find that u cannot accommodate their consolations then no need to worry. You can always do it yourself. There are loads of books, DVD’s and CD’s available for you to learn from. Attending seminars on the same will help you learn it all practically. But you have to constantly keep taking action for the therapy to act effectively. That’s it! Stop pining right now and get to work.

Research shows that only a mere 10% of our subconscious and mind power has been put up to efficient use till date. Usage at this rate has led to such big changes possible, no one knows the limit, we do not know how or what can be achieved if the full 100% can be put to use. No one knows what tremendous things can be achieved, so are you ready to make the impossible possible?

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Stop Smoking! Kick The Smoking Habit Now! Live A Smoke Free Life

by Todd Schuyler

It is said that we’re creatures of habit. Even if we know that a certain habit is bad for us us, we continue doing it anyway. The fact that you have ended up at this website probably means that you have considered quitting smoking. Am I right or wrong? If you want a great stop smoking program click here to visit the official kick the habit stop smoking website.

Breaking te smoking habit is not easy. Smoking becomes a psychological, emotional and a physical addiction and your behavior has been conditioned to follow a routine that is reinforced into a habit. You know that smoking is bad for you, even potentially lethal to your health, but you continue to smoke.

Smoking cigarettes kill! Now for the plain hard facts. Each year over 400,000 Americans die from cigarette smoking alone. This includes lung cancer, heart disease, stroke, respiratory diseases and second hand smoke. Second hand smoke causes about 3,000 deaths from lung cancer each year. So, not only are you killing yourself, your slowly killing others around you! Protect your friends and family by stopping your smoking addiction.

Smoking also takes from your wallet. Think about this. If you smoke a $8.00 pack of cigarettes every week for one whole year, that will calculate up to $416.00 cash spent on smoking. In a year of smoking a pack every week you could have bought all kinds of other items.

A new fancy suit. A brand new iPod. Lots of hair cuts with a top hair stylist. A Round-Trip to just about anywhere in the U.S.

After months of research and undergoing my own quit smoking experience, I’ve learned the following. Quitting smoking cigarettes doesn’t happen overnight. Going “cold-turkey” will actually decrease your motives to quit. You need a different method, a step-by-step approach to kicking that tough to beat smoking habit!

I promise, you have the ability to quit and stop smoking forever! And more importantly, your situation is not completely hopeless. “I’ll Breakdown The Reason’s Why You Started Smoking in the First Place. And Discourage Your Cravings to Smoke, Ever Again!”

Let’s face the facts, not only does smoking kill you, but it also the people around you and the money in your wallet. click here to get a great stop smoking program. Break the Smoking Habit.

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NLP Hypnosis: Using Hypnosis to Program the mind for success.

by Joel Chue

Many of us have always view success is just for the wealthy. We always read about the “things” that the successful people have in common. But success is actually not a monopoly of the rich and famous. In fact, the root of our success lies closer than we think. Our Mind is the most powerful and most useful tool that will shape our success journey. If we can tune our mind properly for success, there is limitless level of success that we can achieve. By using hypnosis to program our mind properly, we are already one-step closer towards success.

Our surroundings always affect us. But when we put things into perspective, we will realize that there is nothing that is Good or bad in this world. What is good or bad, are just value judgments and our own perceptions. For example, take two different persons with exactly the same circumstances. They can response differently to the same set of circumstances. Person “A” And Person “B” both lost their jobs. Person “A” might be contemplating suicide when he starts to think what he might lose, his house, his dignity etc as a direct result of losing his Job. Person “B” however might be more positive when he thinks that losing his Job will gives him a better opportunity to find better ways to express his creative talents. This is why we say perception define our lives.

We also do not realize that our present circumstance had been shaped by our past. Because of our negative past experiences, we tend to assume that faced with the same circumstances, it will automatically lead to the same results. Our mind become stagnant in processing positive experiences.

Bearing in mind that the past will shape our present perceptions, it naturally follows that our perceptions will shape our actions. And lastly, we also have to agree that our actions will shape our future. With these in mind, we must reshape our misconceptions about our reality if ever we want to be successful at all in our endeavors.

Our perception about our present reality is just one side of the picture. What we perceive about our future is equally as important. We must have clearly defined Goals in our life to aim for. A majority of people today have no idea what they want in life. At most, these people only have a vague idea what they want. Until they have a clear vision of their goals, such ideas will only remain a dream. Therefore, you have to set your goals clearly, if success is to be achievable.

Most of us focus a lot on negative aspects, which must change. To grow as a person, instead of crying foul over bad experiences of the past, we must learn a lesson from it and move forward. As a famous saying goes, “Life is cruel than a teacher. A teacher teaches, and then tests. Life tests, and then teaches.

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