NLP Hypnosis: Skills You Need To Master
October 26th, 2008
There are certain Neuro-linguistic Programming [NLP] skills that you need to master to be competent in this field. Some of them are:
1. Calibration: this talk about the skill to be able to read people’s mind. You must had come across situation where people assume that you were unhappy whereas you are actually fine. In these circumstances, you are said to be miscalibrated by these people. Based on your physical actions, these people had assumed otherwise. To be able to read a person mind regardless of their physical actions is known as calibrating that individual. A superb example of where there are a lot of calibrating going on is the World Poker championship. Here the punters are always calibrating each other to see who is really having a strong hand.
2. Detection of patterns: Patterns are the base of NLP. But there often lies a confusion regarding the exact implication of the word “pattern”. In simple words, pattern means the prediction of events which are to follow, based on what has happened. For instance, a child may observe his dad to eat his breakfast at 8 in the morning. He notices this continuously. The next time, when it strikes 8, he predicts that his dad would come out for breakfast, and he does! That’s it, the child has been able to detect a pattern. Then, this skill of pattern detection must be applied for bettering your performance.
3. Proper Questioning: There is a direct correlation to quality of information that you will receive based on the type of questions you ask. As such, you need to be able to frame a question properly to get the right kind of information that you need for your analysis. Ask precise and specific questions, which are relevant to the subject matter in question. You must be clear in your questioning and not ask a question which is capable of more than one meaning.
4. Reading the other party’s eyes: This refers to ability to read clues into ways person process information based on the movements of their eyes. For example, when you ask a person about their vacation, their eyes will flick upwards trying to recall what they can remember. From this cue, we can sense if a person is having problems accessing those information. By being able to read these cues, you will be able to relate to what the other party is thinking about.
These are some of the main key skills that you will need to polish if you wish to master NLP. However, these essential skill is not exhaustive. There are other skill with which you will require as you become more and more competent with NLP.
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